What Would You Do If Your Success Was Inevitable?
- Maya Grossman
- Nov 25, 2025
- 4 min read
When I applied to my dream business school, I missed the GMAT cutoff by two points.
Most people would’ve moved on.
I took it again — and got in.
Years later, I faced 17 rejections before finally landing my first Director role.
And when I started my business, I made less than my corporate salary for three years before crossing seven figures this year.
Every one of those moments had the same turning point:
I stopped asking “What if I fail?”
And started asking “What if success is inevitable?”
What Would You Do Differently If You Knew You Couldn’t Fail?
It’s a simple question, but if you’re honest, the answer is a lot.
You’d finally go after that promotion you’ve been “waiting to be ready for.”
You’d speak up in executive meetings instead of waiting to be asked.
You’d stop editing your ideas to sound “safe” enough.
And you’d stop playing small just to make other people comfortable.
But most ambitious leaders don’t do any of that because they spend more time planning for failure than preparing for success.
They ask themselves:
What if I say something stupid?
What if they say no?
What if I’m not ready yet?
So they lower the bar.
They delay the ask.
They water down the boldest version of themselves.
But here’s the truth:
When you make decisions from fear, you don’t just play it safe — you play it small.
You miss out on the stretch projects, the senior visibility, the chances to prove you can operate at the next level.
And the worst part? You start to believe the story that you’re “not ready” when really, you just haven’t taken the shot.
The Mindset That Changed Everything for Me
One of the reasons I’ve been able to achieve so many of my goals is simple: I refuse to believe I can’t do it. I remember listening to a podcast and hearing Tom Bilyeu say: If it does not defy the laws of physics, you can do it.
That was my first aha moment, but I was also skeptical so I decided to put it to the test.
Every time my brain said, You can’t do that, I’d ask:
“Does this defy the laws of physics?”
The answer was always no.
That’s when I realized — the problem wasn’t capability.
It was belief.
I might not know how to do something yet, but that’s the part I can figure out.
And the moment I stopped negotiating with doubt, everything changed.
When you believe your success is inevitable:
You stop wasting energy on Plan B.
You get resourceful.
You start acting like the person who’s already achieved it.
That’s how I walked into rooms I “wasn’t ready for,” pitched ideas that changed my career, and built a seven-figure business from zero — by refusing to quit before I began.
Why This Works (and Why It’s Not Woo-Woo)
Here’s the psychology behind it:
Self-Efficacy (Albert Bandura): When you believe you can succeed, you work harder, recover faster, and persist longer.
Growth Mindset (Carol Dweck): Seeing skills as learnable turns challenges into opportunities to grow, not evidence you’re failing.
Confirmation Bias: When you assume success is inevitable, your brain looks for proof — and starts spotting chances you’d otherwise miss.
Belief doesn’t replace effort. It amplifies it.
You start to act like a winner — and your environment catches up.
The Inevitable Success Shift
If you’ve been feeling stuck, stagnant or feel like you’ve compromised too much, here’s how to start operating from inevitability:
Decide on the Destination
Don’t hope you’ll be VP “someday.” Decide you will.
Leaders don’t wait for permission — they declare direction.
Speak in “when,” not “if.”
It’s not about faking confidence it’s the beginning of your identity shift.
Reverse-Engineer the Win
Ask: If I’d already achieved this, what would I be doing differently today?
Would you delegate more? Speak more strategically? Build new relationships?
Start now — before the title arrives.
Commit Like There’s No Escape Hatch
Tell people your goal. Apply for the role. Invest in yourself.
Burn the boats. When success is the only option, you find a way.
This last one is key and the part that most people struggle with. Remind yourself that most things in life are reversible. Even if you go all in right now, you can change your mind in a year.
Your 7-Day Inevitability Plan
Let’s make this real with a small challenge.
Try it for one week — and watch how quickly momentum builds.
Day 1 – Declare It
Write your audacious goal in one clear sentence. “I will be a VP of Marketing within 18 months.” Put it somewhere visible.
Day 2 – Audit Your Actions
Notice where you’re operating from fear or safety. List two behaviors that belong to “future you” — and do them.
Day 3 – Set an If-Then Trigger
“If I’m in a senior meeting, then I’ll contribute one strategic insight.”
“If I’m unsure, I’ll ask one clarifying question instead of staying silent.”
Day 4 – Burn One Ship
Drop a comfort habit that keeps you small: hiding your ambitions, saying yes to everything, avoiding visibility.
Day 5 – Start a Power Conversation
Reach out to someone senior. Share what you’re working on.
Assume they’ll want to help — because high performers attract other high performers.
Day 6 – Make a Bold Ask
Request visibility, budget, or opportunity. You don’t need to be 100% ready — just brave enough to ask.
Day 7 – Reflect + Reset
Celebrate what moved forward. Write down one thing you’ll do next week to keep the momentum alive.
Your Next Steps
Are you any closer to believing your success is inevitable? Good. You should be. Because once you start operating like success is inevitable — people start believing you.
Opportunities start finding you. This is the kind of mindset work that drives lasting success.
And the path to VP, or leadership, or building your business stops looking impossible because you’re already walking it.
Tell me, what would you do in the next 30 days if your success were inevitable?
Ready to stop journaling the goal and start engineering it?
My free 25-minute masterclass breaks down the exact moves that help high performers get seen as next-level ready.
I believe in you, and I’m rooting for you
Maya❤️
