7 Boring Habits That Get Directors Promoted Faster
- Maya Grossman
- Feb 26
- 6 min read
For a long time, I thought success in my business would come from the flashy stuff.
Being everywhere.
Posting all the time.
Saying yes to podcasts, collaborations, travel, and visibility plays.
And to be fair, some of that helped.
But when I look back honestly, none of those things were the real growth engine.
What actually moved the business forward was painfully boring.
Sharpening my positioning instead of changing it every few months.
Refining my offer instead of chasing new ideas.
Doing the same simple things over and over again until they become clear, obvious, and easy for other people to understand.
It wasn’t exciting.
It wasn’t fast.
And that’s exactly why most people quit before it works.
Careers follow the same pattern.
People assume promotions happen because of one big moment, one high-visibility project, one perfect performance cycle.
They don’t.
They happen because of small, repeatable habits that compound quietly over time.
At senior levels, promotion isn’t about effort. It’s about pattern recognition. Leaders are watching for consistent signals that you already operate like a VP.
If you want a deeper breakdown of what promotion committees actually look for when evaluating VP readiness, I walk through that here.
The Mistake High Performers Keep Making
Most career advice focuses on big moves.
The high-visibility project.
The stretch assignment.
The perfectly timed promotion ask.
Those things matter, but they’re not the foundation.
What actually determines whether you get promoted is how you show up in the small, repeatable moments, week after week.
Here are the boring habits that get Directors promoted faster and quietly separate the people who move up from the people who stay stuck.

7 Boring Habits That Get You Promoted Faster
1. Write Status Updates That Signal Ownership
Most updates sound like this:
“I finished X, I’m working on Y, Z is blocked.”
That tells your manager you’re busy.
It does not tell them you’re ready for more responsibility.
Stronger updates answer three questions:
What changed?
Why does it matter?
What’s next?
Example
Instead of:
“I finished the rollout, and I’m monitoring results.”
Try:
“We completed the rollout, which reduced onboarding time by ~15%. The next step is stabilizing adoption. No major risks right now.”
Same work. Very different signal.
Do this every week, and people start trusting you with a bigger scope because your work feels under control.
Clear, outcome-driven updates make senior leaders feel safe giving you more scope. And at the VP level, perceived control and clarity matter more than busyness.
If you want a practical framework for writing updates senior leaders actually read (and repeat in promotion rooms), I break that down here.
2. Spend 10 Minutes Preparing for Meetings
This sounds obvious, but almost no one does it well.
That extra 10 minutes is the difference between answering questions and shaping the conversation.
Most people show up and react.
People who get promoted show up with a point of view.
Before a meeting, ask yourself:
What decision might be made here?
What does success look like for my manager in this conversation?
Where could this get stuck?
This is executive presence in practice. Having a point of view before you speak is what differentiates Directors from future VPs.
That prep changes the quality of your questions and comments.
And that changes how you’re perceived. Stop telling yourself you don’t have time, and make time. Add 10-minute breaks between meetings (just set it up with your email provider) or block 15 min at the beginning or end of every day to prep for what’s ahead.
If you want to strengthen this skill in a more structured way, I go deeper into developing executive presence here.
3. Translate Your Work Into Business Impact
Executives don’t promote effort. They promote impact.
If you’re already a strong IC or Manager, this is the shift that gets you to Director and beyond: thinking in business outcomes, not deliverables.
If you only talk about features, tasks, or hours worked, you’re making it harder for others to advocate for you.
I know you’ve heard this advice a million times, but what have you done to upgrade your communication, instead of just winging it?
Get in the habit of translating:
Did this save time?
Reduce risk?
Increase revenue?
Improve customer experience?
If you don’t connect the dots, no one else will.
This is how you move from “great IC” to “business thinker” while doing the same work… This is also what creates strategic visibility — the kind that builds sponsorship beyond your manager. I explain how that works (and why it’s the hidden key to VP promotion) here.
4. Repeat Your Value in 1:1s
Visibility isn’t bragging. It’s memory management.
Your manager is juggling a lot. They will forget your wins unless you remind them.
A simple pattern that works:
One win from last week
Why it mattered
What you’re focused on next
Not once. Every 1:1.
Over time, your impact becomes familiar. Familiarity is what turns into trust and advocacy.
5. Follow Up on Stretch
I’ve seen so many professionals raise their hands once and then wait. They’re worried about looking pushy or rude, but once is usually not enough.s
The most successful entrepreneurs know that “Business is in the follow-up” and it’s the same in your career.
Opportunities often go to the person who stays engaged, available, and top of mind.
A simple follow-up sounds like:
“Just checking back. Still really interested if timing opens up.”
Don’t stop at the first “no” or “not right now”. Take a minute, evaluate, improve, try again. That’s not pushy. It signals ownership.
I heard “no” when I applied to my first VP role. I followed up with the hiring manager a few months later, offering some perspective. The next day, they asked me to come interview again.
Most senior leaders interpret thoughtful follow-up as seriousness, not pushiness. It signals ownership and long-term intent — both required for VP.
6. Turn Vague Feedback Into Visible Change
“Be more strategic” is not actionable feedback.
When you hear it, your job is to clarify it.
Ask:
“What would someone at the next level do differently in my role?”
Then make those behaviors visible:
Broader framing
Clear tradeoffs
Fewer details, more direction
Feedback only works when others can see the change.
I wish every manager knew how to give actionable feedback, but unfortunately, most don’t. Don’t stay stuck because your manager can’t give constructive feedback.
7. Track Your Wins Before You Need Them
Do you remember your biggest wins from 6 months ago? The exact numbers, the impact, and who knows about it? Things move so quicklythat we often forget or minimize our impact when we look back.
That’s not great if you want to show how far you’ve come and how you’ve grown. Keep a simple running doc that captures your wins:
What changed
Why it mattered
Who it impacted
And don’t just track them — socialize them strategically. Wins that live only in your document don’t influence promotion rooms.
This becomes your future promotion case without the the last minute scramble. It will also fuel your executive narrative and show your impact.
If you want a full breakdown of how to structure a promotion case that holds up in calibration conversations, I outline the core elements here.
Your Next Steps
The real takeaway? None of these habits is impressive on its own.
They only work because they compound.
Most people try them once, don’t see immediate results, and move on.
The people who move faster do the boring things long enough for the compounding effect to kick in.
The Directors who move fastest aren’t more talented. They’re more consistent.
Pick one habit. Practice it for two weeks. Then layer in another.
That’s how executive readiness compounds.
Not all ten. One. And stay consistent.
That is how you create leverage.
These habits work — but only when they’re part of a bigger promotion strategy.
In my free masterclass, I break down how Directors in tech become the obvious choice for VP — including how to build executive visibility, sponsorship, and a promotion case that holds up in the room.
Free training: How Directors In Tech Become The Obvious Choice For VP
I believe in you, and I’m rooting for you
Maya❤️





